Weed Sex & Cannabis Lubes

A guide to cannabis lubes to enhance your sexual pleasure

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Bringing cannabis into the bedroom is a no brainer for most weed enthusiasts, yet alcohol and sex is a common combination that’s widely accepted as the norm. Both substances allow an individual to enter an altered state of mind while elevating their sexual experience with a heightened, intoxicated emotional drive. So why does everyone know the ins and outs of alcohol and sex, but only the cannabis community is curious about what happens while under the influence of THC (or CBD, for that matter)? Regardless of your typical substance preference outside of the bedroom, we’re here to shed some light on the truth about weed sex. The connection between CBD and sex drive is a thing; cannabis lube can start the party (and keep it going) while finding the best strains for female arousal and the best edibles for female arousal can ensure you’re feeling the best in your body.

CBD and Sex Drive

CBD has anti-inflammatory properties which help muscles to relax, resulting in a feeling of deeper focus and pleasure. The pandemic has heightened stress levels across the globe, which in return affects people’s libidos. 

High Guide Kiana Reeves: There’s a direct correlation usually between increase in stress and decrease in sex hormones or even sex drive, because survival gets prioritized over sex.

Which means, first and foremost one must decipher whether their challenges related to sex are related to physical or mental stress.  The relationship of CBD and sex drive is rooted in relaxation: CBD helps relax the muscle linings in the female pelvis and significantly decreases the stressed state of mind which, in return, increases libido. Women facing barriers to pleasure, like painful sex due to endometriosis or menopausal symptoms, are beginning to understand the correlation between CBD and sex drive. Many of these barriers are caused by hormones or inflammation, both of which can be soothed with the help of CBD, so finding the best edibles for female arousal or trying out a CBD suppository could make a difference. Whether it’s mental (stress), hormonal, or physical (inflammation), CBD can address these problems and bring the mind and body to a state where sex becomes more pleasurable. Both Quim and Foria offer CBD and THC cannabis products – including cannabis lube – that many women turn to for arousal and relief.  

High Guide Cyo Nystrom: We’ve had a number of folks with endometriosis symptoms share stories of how our products helped make sex enjoyable again, and people experiencing menopause who used Quim to jumpstart their sex lives, and others who just really enjoy getting off without worrying about a yeast infection or UTI the next day.”

Best Strains for Female Arousal

Naturally, incorporating THC into sex has more intense or noticeable effects. Both THC and CBD are vasodilating, meaning that they dilate the blood vessels (hence why the red eyes when you get high). They help blood flow absorb into the tissues which is the primary function of arousal. Inhaling cannabis rather than applying cannabis lube offers a different outcome than weed sex. The best strains for female arousal include but are not limited to Girl Scout Cookies, Bubblegum Kush, Jillybean, Saturna, and Green Crack, but most importantly, choose a strain that relaxes you which will help to heighten your sexual awareness.  There are also some incredible brands of pre-rolled joints containing some of the best strains for female arousal combined with other aphrodisiacs like SEXXPOT and Khemia’s sexy Rose Petal prerolls.

A unique differentiator when using THC cannabis lube like Foria Pleasure is during oral sex with a partner. The person giving is able to get a little high which is definitely a perk of weed sex. The one receiving (the one with the topical cannabis lube applied to their sexual organs) will most likely not experience any psychoactivitiy, and instead the THC stays localized in the pelvic region. However, some women and men have experienced highs from vaginal or anal application, so you never know! In short, cannabis lube alters your sex response and your sexual experience, but shouldn’t alter your mental state too much. 

High Guide Kiana Reeves: Foria Relief suppositories for intimacy were really designed to help internal muscle structures get a high dose of cannabinoids that will help the muscles relax, soften, allow for more blood flow, receive those kinds of vasodilating benefits and they both enhance pleasure.

THC doesn’t just help reduce pain; with more blood flowing into the region, the muscles become more relaxed and sensations are enhanced. For those who want to experience a full body buzz, we recommend choosing the best edibles for female arousal for head to toe bliss.  Products like Kikoko’s Aphrodisiac Sensuali-tea, the Love line by 1906, and Kiva’s Dark Chocolate Espresso Beans are great to enjoy solo or with a partner. The body can become more relaxed and everything from touch to penetration to any kind of movement simply feels more pleasurable.

Alcohol vs. Weed

Both alcohol and weed allow your mind to shift into a new state. It’s this state change that enhances and excites sex under the influence. It pulls you out of your head and into your sensations. One major difference between sex on alcohol vs weed sex, however, is consent. Alcohol changes your boundaries for consent which can become highly dangerous. Another key difference is for people with a vulva, alcohol can actually increase dryness which is the opposite of what we’re going for. It does not enhance your ability to self lubricate the way cannabis does. While alcohol does act a bit like a sedative causing relaxation, when it comes to self lubrication, it is not a friend. 

Speaking of consent, it’s important to be mindful of what cannabis lube you’re choosing based upon your methods of protection.  If latex condoms are part of the routine, Quim offers two products to support your safe weed sex.  Smooth Operator is hemp CBD based which ships nationally, while Oh YES! is cannabis lube containing THC and is available in California.  If you’re having unprotected intercourse with your lover, Quim’s Night Moves is the move, we know from experience.

High Guide Cyo Nystrom: Cannabis has been shown to increase arousal, improve satisfaction with orgasm, and decrease inflammation—all of which obviously have a significant effect on sexual wellness! People shouldn’t be asked to sacrifice health for pleasure; if you’re using a product on your body, it should not only make you feel good, but be good for you. I love that cannabis is a natural ingredient that can help enhance pleasure while simultaneously minimizing pain.

What people love about alcohol is the lack of inhibition; the ability to let go, ignore negative thoughts, and feel more comfortable in situations where discomfort is usually the norm. It provides the ability to forget about worries and truly indulge in the moment. Cannabis, on the other hand, has the potential to make you more self aware instead of less. This can sometimes become a mental block in getting intimate with your partner, so it could be helpful to test out some of the best strains for female arousal, the best edibles for female arousal, and the various cannabis lube options from Quim and Foria before engaging in weed sex so you know what you’re getting into.  

Men vs. Women: Reactions to Weed

Naturally, women and men have different body parts that react differently to substances. As a whole, a woman’s labia is more absorbent than a man’s genitalia. That said, it has been reported that men have found relief in treating erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation by using THC topicals like Foria Pleasure cannabis lube. However, more women bring CBD or THC into the bedroom as, truthfully, it can provide more physical benefits to the woman, or the individual with the vagina. It is also typically the woman who experiences barriers to pleasure in the bedroom, be it pain, discomfort, or more. You will, therefore, find men sometimes respond with a “What’s in it for me?” attitude when cannabis lube is brought into the bedroom. The answer? Her pleasure is your pleasure.

High Guide Mathew Gerson: Yeah. The ‘what’s in it for me’, that’s such a common theme. And I hate to be cheeky, but what’s in it for you, if you’re in a heterosexual relationship with a woman is you have a likelihood of a more satisfied, more relaxed, more at ease partner that’s experiencing deeper pleasure and less pain in the context of her intimate pursuits with herself or with you. Those are all really great wins and extraordinarily important in my sense of pleasure. Now, that’s what my partner is experiencing. What’s in it for me physiologically or physically, not much.

It is common for people in long term relationships to experience a lull in bedroom romance. What kills this intimacy can partially be attributed to monotony or lack of experimentation. Playing with cannabis products and exploring new types of sexual encounters can help rekindle that fire. Even for single individuals on the prowl or those wanting to explore their own sexual needs solo, there are a plethora of cannabis products from QUIM, Foria and beyond, so have fun testing them all to find the right one for you! Sex and romance are more exciting when there is a bit of mysteriousness in the mix, and experimenting with weed sex provides a similar sense of wonder. 

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